If you want to be more comfortable around women, don’t focus on what YOU THINK will happen, focus on what you’d want to happen and use that mindset to fuel your confidence and drive to be around women.You can’t approach women because you’re afraid to fail.Thinking that she is special will change the way you interact with her; your successful seduction behavior (the one that got you laid with other girls) will not be the one you use here.You will only be able to get this girl when you manage to see her as any other girl out there.That one girl is only special because you BELIEVE she is.
You might get a glob of spinach stuck in your teeth (which you’ll notice two hours after dinner). But some women make mistakes by not thinking ahead and not being aware of what they’re doing at the moment. Talking about long-term commitment too soon Although it is untrue that all men are afraid of commitment, most prefer to ease into the subject slowly and after plenty of time spent getting to know their partner.But probing too far too fast can come across as nosy and intrusive. Being ungrateful and unappreciative Some women don’t realize that planning and pulling off a date can cause lots of anxiety for a man. It takes guts to ask someone out, and it takes careful consideration to orchestrate a nice evening. It is natural to want to know as much as you can about your date: his tastes, experiences, career, and hobbies. A little awareness can help ensure that yours won’t be so big as to rule out future dates.You may want to know about his family and past romantic relationships. Read on for similar articles in our Stages of Love road map!